It is remarkable how two persons or two groups of people can look at a single object or issue and come up with completely different assessments. I guess the differences with which people see objects and issues, makes for more substantive conversations, and ultimately better outcomes.
But what do we do when the disagreement on the issues, at least for some, is not anchored in reality anymore? How do we have good outcomes when the disagreement that some people register is geared at muddying the water, and creating an Orwellian dystopia that satisfies the outcomes they desire.
I first experienced that unreality in dealing with my own father. The eldest of seven children, my father and I only connected in my early adulthood. [Sid], as I referred to him, was to me, a father in name only. I had long learned to forgive him for who he has or hasn’t been, much the same way that I have learned to forgive my mother as well; I am one of those fortunate kids not to have been raised by my biological parents. Thank you, Lord.
Don’t ask; it isn’t straightforward.
My dad would look at the moon and try to convince you that it is green; no amount of facts would change his mind. At times I thought he wanted to be contrarian to be different.……The way his life turned out has not argued well for his contrarian stances.
You may wonder where I am going with this rambling, and you would be right in being impatient, so that I will get right to it. Having lived in the United States for almost three decades, it is astonishing to see how truth has been replaced with lies, and a general sense of exhaustion has taken over.
In less than four years, the country’s mood has changed from hopeful optimism to dark foreboding and deep fear.
Even with the distinct knowledge that darkness does not extinguish the light, it is remarkably difficult to understand how Donald Trump’s lies and disinformation have damaged America and the American psyche in just four short years.
There is so much riding on this election that people opposed to Trump are having sleepless nights.
Some people have confided in me that they are unable to sleep at night, that they can hardly eat out of fear that he will win reelection.
These are American citizens, not immigrant children locked in cages, or their parents who have been deported, simply for daring to seek asylum.
These are people who have lost their loved ones to the COVID-19 pandemic without being able to give them a parting hug or say goodbye. They are Americans who have witnessed an occupant of the White House tell police it is okay to brutalize citizens and see them in turn into a veritable brutal invading army as a consequence.
They are disgusted at hearing a president refer to racist white supremacists as “wonderful” people.”
They have seen the shocking attack on the very foundations of the rule of law, from a president that is not just lawless but contemptuous of the rule of law.
They have witnessed a Republican party purged of reasonable and rational actors, bow down to Donald Trump, and have become aiders and abettors in the destruction of the Republic.
They have watched their Justice Department taken over by a hyper-partisan in the form of William Barr, who has interfered in Department cases and has lied and distorted reality in service to Donald Trump, rather than in serving the American people.
They have also seen a chief executive who has broken laws as he sees fit. He has used the presidency to enrich himself and his family. He has placed his supporters at risk of death, just so that he can satisfy his narcissistic lust for adoration, at rally after rally after rally…
It is incredible to imagine that any person occupying the nation’s highest office could be so dangerous and inherently bent on destruction.
I would be lying if I said that I was not deeply disturbed myself having seen the United States under several Presidents, good and bad, from the late Herbert Walker Bush, to the White House’s present occupant.
There has never been an election in my lifetime that not only the presidency and down-ballot offices are on the ballot, but Democracy itself is on the ballot.
One of the most astounding occurrences that must be recorded for posterity, is the willingness of Republicans to burn down the republic to preside over the ashes.
What happened to the Republicans, you ask.
They have seen the data that many people have seen, America is changing; they do not like what they see in the racial demographics.
Immigration and Abortion fights are all about the changing dynamics occurring in the country. Republicans are prepared to burn the house down rather than allow others to live in it equally.
The lies and disinformation that has taken over the country have been too much. Defeating Donald Trump is now a matter of life and death.
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Mike Beckles is a former police Detective corporal, businessman, freelance writer, a black achiever honoree, and publisher of the blog mikebeckles.com.
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